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Do Not Fall In Love With A Broken Heart

It's difficult to deal with the situations when we are exhausted of the drug we need, to heal ourselves.

Haven't experienced this situation yet, here's something I'll tell you, you are a very lucky person and I'll give you a small piece of advise, do not ever fall for someone with a broken heart. Why? Here's why:

You won't be able to understand who the person really is when they are broken, sympathy/empathy or whatever you call it will take charge of your logical thinking and you will start pouring in all your emotions onto them, they will heal themselves from the love you give them and once they are fine, they will become a person you will never recognise.

So what, you think you can probably break free and move on? My friend, you are wrong, here's what will happen to you:

All your life neither will you be able to move on because you're already exhausted of your emotions, nor will you ever get the answer to how this person changed so much. You will miss that person you loved with all your broken bits no matter whether she is still with you or not and hope that someday you will find her again.

Well, sorry to break this to you, but you are never gonna find her again. You see, she never changed, she just became what she really is, but you never knew her.

She doesn't need you anymore, your purpose in her life is done and now, the call is yours if you want to spend the rest of your pathetic life holding on to the memories with that faint hope dieing each day or you want to live whatever life you are left with.

It's time to make a choice and the choice is yours.

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